Marriage to a foreigner

الكاتب : Di7bash   المشاهدات : 528   الردود : 7    ‏2004-01-04
      مشاركة رقم : 1    ‏2004-01-04
  1. Di7bash

    Di7bash عضو متميّز

    التسجيل :
    الإعجاب :
    Its common nowadays, men marrying foreigner women because its much easier than the long and expensive routine back home. These men face difficuties in their marriage like the difference in prespective and culture between him and his wife and some have the tranquility of an understanding flexible wife. The kids might be a problem or an advantage too. They might be lost between the cultures and backgrounds their parents have or they might have the powers and strengths of both races like language and intellectuality.
    please enrich us with your openion and analysis.
  2.   مشاركة رقم : 2    ‏2004-01-18
  3. ماجدولين

    ماجدولين مشرفة سابقة مشرف سابق

    التسجيل :
    الإعجاب :
    [color=660066]Dear Di7bash I'm not against those who married to forign women>>>>>

    But i just keep wondering WHY?!

    What the strange woman have and ur country girl don't??

    Don't forget the God's say:

    ( Don't marry unbelieving women(indolaters)untilthey believe: a slave woman who believes is better than unbelieving woman, even though she allure you. )

    ولا تنكحوا المشركات حتى يؤمن ولأمة مؤمنة خير من مشركة ولو أعجبتكم ...

    and there must be a moral from all that >>>>

    Don't u think so!!
  4.   مشاركة رقم : 3    ‏2004-01-18
  5. أبو يمن اصلي

    أبو يمن اصلي قلم فضي

    التسجيل :
    الإعجاب :
    If I love a foreigner and most importantly, if she loves me, I will marry her PROVIDED THAT she becomes a Muslim and covers her body in Hijab
    The matter is not with easiness of procedure, but with what she has to offer for me as a husband
    In terms of beauty: For me, personally, I prefer Yemeni women to any other in the world, (except Latin Americans
    In terms of respect: It depends. A Yemeni can be the best and could be the worst.
    So, there is no clear cut answer to the question of WHY they marry foreigners
    It all depends
  6.   مشاركة رقم : 4    ‏2004-01-18
  7. al-5ayal

    al-5ayal مشرف سابق

    التسجيل :
    الإعجاب :
    dont tell u dat u wanna marry a foreigner woman

    n if u wanna mah advice
    dont do it
    coz really u'll face many problem
    expecailly wen u will have kids
    wat's more, u will have a very very big problem if u wanna divorce her

    just dont do it
    and there are lots of yemeni girls here in yemen
    and if our men married foreigner women
    our women will be for who?????

  8.   مشاركة رقم : 5    ‏2004-01-19
  9. Di7bash

    Di7bash عضو متميّز

    التسجيل :
    الإعجاب :
    You said
    [color=FF0000]But i just keep wondering WHY?!

    What the strange woman have and ur country girl don't[/color]??

    For one of two reasons:
    1-As stated in my post the main reason is the costs .Many poeple can't afford a traditional yemeni marraige (9alah,'3ada,7ezam thahab,mahr.....etc.)
    both the man and the women are victims of this fact
    to the contrary,marraige here(in canada and the states) is the easiest thing and both the pride and the groom share the expensis

    2-because of the social and religious restrictions back home you are not allowed to talk,go out with,and contact girls so when you decide to marry a yemeni girl you are risking your future because you might not get along together or she might be in love with another guy and you don't know.
    In the rest of the worlds its exactly the opposite you will never ever think of marriage until you are 100% sure that this is the one whome i want to spend the rest of my life with and this is true for both boys and girls.

    Abu yemen asli
    [color=CC0000] For me, personally, I prefer Yemeni women to any other in the world, ([color=6600FF]except Latin Americans[/color][/color]
    Latin Americans ya naz'3ah

    I personally believe that marring a Yemeni is better, you know I have seen many Canadian muslin girls but they are not quit the same. Even if their origin was Arabic. I think the system here is so powerful that we can’t even change easily. Yemenis have this special chemistry that we want.. However they have this special “anti-chemistry" that we don’t want, but comes along with the package.

    dont tell u dat u wanna marry a foreigner woman[/color]

    Don't worry about me i am already engaged to a yemeni angel
    whome i know her and she know me
    and you know one of my request from my in laws before the engagement that they should allow us to contact each other
    so that we make sure that we really want each other
    and after all breaking the engagement is much better than a divorce
    isn't it?

    Thanks all for dropping by
  10.   مشاركة رقم : 6    ‏2004-01-25
  11. T_K

    T_K قلم فضي

    التسجيل :
    الإعجاب :
    brother di7bash
    am totally against marrying foreign women
    i think that a woman from your home land would understand you and ur culture and wouldn't demand much of you or expect more than you can give her or do
    On the other hand, a foreign woman would probably expect you to change your ways of living and and even your perspectives of most things you've grown up to learn .. she wouldn't understand you when you act unaccordingly to her norms because she thinks that ANYONE CAN CHANGE
    but then again ... WHY CHANGE

  12.   مشاركة رقم : 7    ‏2004-02-03
  13. azizNY

    azizNY عضو

    التسجيل :
    الإعجاب :
    I Agree

    As The Prophet Mohamed PBUH said, Marry from Outsiders

    Its more healthier and tightens the Islamic Relations betweent the Muslims

  14.   مشاركة رقم : 8    ‏2004-02-05
  15. جراهام بل

    جراهام بل مشرف سابق

    التسجيل :
    الإعجاب :
    it's not a good idea,it's possible though
    You know, there should an approach or convergence between the cultures of both coupls
    I think you've got the idea
    i'm rushing now
    bye for now

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