Family conflicts and some suggestions!

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  1. عــاهد

    عــاهد مشرف سابق

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    My brothers and sister Salam Allahu 3likum!

    As the person gets older his/her responsibilities grow with him/her!
    And responsibility means allot!

    Regardless of you positively taking care of your responsibility or not, you'll still be blamed for something within the family circle!
    You just can not satisfy any one! This is a problem most of us face as high school or college students!

    For example " you work and you go to school but your parents say your job is not right for you!" This is just one. Allah knows how many more there are!

    My question for today is how can you satisfy your family when you are on the right track!

    Of course the suggestions have to be wise and hala!

    قال تعالى (( وقضى ربك الا تعبدوا الا اياه وبالوالدين احسانا )) وقال تعالى (( ولا تقل لهما افٍ ولا تنهرهما وقل لهما قولا كريما واخفض لهما جناح الذل من الرحمه وقل ربي ارحمهما كما ربياني صغيرا ))

    BTW the black word is used ارحمها
    In some forums i just noticed that!

    Naz 1
    Salam
     
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  3. خفا الاحزان

    خفا الاحزان عضو

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    و عليكم السلام
    Brother as you said
    No matter what you do they don't like it, but one thing that I really want to do and it is pray and make dua for every one
     
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  5. عــاهد

    عــاهد مشرف سابق

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    Still thats not enough sister!
    I mean what if someone really needs to bypass this conflict?
    What if it has a major impact on the way the person thinks?

    Usually there are suggestions for everything!
    Whats yours?:D


    Naz 1
    Salamz
     
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  7. خفا الاحزان

    خفا الاحزان عضو

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    Salam will I have no idea I always try to not think of the things that what don't people like in me. or what they want me to change and think only of the good things that people like and me myslef like about me. Did that make since. Will I think our families will never live those days so there is nothing to do to chnage them
     
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  9. shareef

    shareef قلم فضي

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    Trust me your Parents will never say you are not in the right track if they know you are in the right track......Parents knows about you more than you know about yourself...........a fact
     
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  11. عــاهد

    عــاهد مشرف سابق

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    How about if you're confident and you know you're doing the right thing!
    They still think otherwise i mean you know how parents are bro.
     
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  13. iBn Al-YeMeN

    iBn Al-YeMeN قلم فضي

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    I agree with brother Shareef ..Monstly parents see more than what you see. and know more than what you dont know....a person thinks he/she confident of what they doing but they are wrong and not in the right track .....
    Brother Ahad my advice to you and everyone including my self , if our parents tells us that we aint doing what we supposed to do just listen to them except in Allah's impiety

    Salaam
     
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  15. Rita Alshoaibi

    Rita Alshoaibi مشرف سابق

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    parents are always wise - they know and see more
    so it would be good if u begin to listen to them



    (and be sure - they always want ur best)



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  17. yemenreform

    yemenreform عضو متميّز

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    You think about it Ahad
    Your family loves you and they really want what is best for you. They would not suggest something to harm you on purpose

    The problem is that sometimes because of differences in their education level and the way they grew up and managed to survive they might give you bad instructions by mistake.

    You should explain your point in a polite and respectful manner and try to convince them of their error. The problem usually people don't like to admit error
     

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