Help Me, Help You

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  1. samiah

    samiah مشرف سابق

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    Salam


    Today my topic might combine humor and seriousness, It depends how each member views it.



    Brothers and Sister
    The Topic carries Questions that concern woman mostly, but as much as her curiosity to know why, as much as it is important every man’s point of view
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    Why do Men
    (husband, brother and dad)
    do not cooperate with his (wife,sister and mom) Inside the house?1.



    Didn’t our leader prophet Mohammad peace be upon him use to help Aisha prepare food!!.

    However, I don’t mean man have to help us out in every little thing, but at least I expect you to know where is the cabinet for glasses:rolleyes::cool: or at least do the laundry, unless you want
    :D:Dto wash the dish’s instead

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    Sisters what do you think of a man who extremely relies on you on everything inside the house?1


    Brothers what are the limits of a mans cooperation in the house, and would you prefer helping out or is that not even something you think about? explain why?1
     
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  3. samiah

    samiah مشرف سابق

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    Salam


    Today my topic might combine humor and seriousness, It depends how each member views it.



    Brothers and Sister
    The Topic carries Questions that concern woman mostly, but as much as her curiosity to know why, as much as it is important every man’s point of view
    ][/
    COL
    In


    Why do Men
    (husband, brother and dad)
    do not cooperate with his (wife,sister and mom) Inside the house?1.



    Didn’t our leader prophet Mohammad peace be upon him use to help Aisha prepare food!!.

    However, I don’t mean man have to help us out in every little thing, but at least I expect you to know where is the cabinet for glasses:rolleyes::cool: or at least do the laundry, unless you want
    :D:Dto wash the dish’s instead

    .
    Sisters what do you think of a man who extremely relies on you on everything inside the house?1


    Brothers what are the limits of a mans cooperation in the house, and would you prefer helping out or is that not even something you think about? explain why?1
     
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  5. samiah

    samiah مشرف سابق

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    Today my topic might combine humor and seriousness, It depends how each member views it.



    Brothers and Sister
    The Topic carries Questions that concern woman mostly, but as much as her curiosity to know why, as much as it is important every man’s point of view
    ][/
    COL
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    Why do Men
    (husband, brother and dad)
    do not cooperate with his (wife,sister and mom) Inside the house?1.



    Didn’t our leader prophet Mohammad peace be upon him use to help Aisha prepare food!!.

    However, I don’t mean man have to help us out in every little thing, but at least I expect you to know where is the cabinet for glasses:rolleyes::cool: or at least do the laundry, unless you want
    :D:Dto wash the dish’s instead

    .
    Sisters what do you think of a man who extremely relies on you on everything inside the house?1


    Brothers what are the limits of a mans cooperation in the house, and would you prefer helping out or is that not even something you think about? explain why?1
     
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  7. عــاهد

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    Wow i am surprised that you finally posted something, i was about to complain. :D

    But since we both were on the forum at the same time its my pleasure to reply first.

    The answer is that because this man, kid, or brother has a weak and sick thought. He thinks that by insulting his Ma7ram he is doing the right thing, although he is absolutely doing a big mistake.
    This person might see it as a way to prove that he is a grown up or has some kind of control over his family.
    Another reason is probably because it is a tradition that we all followed from our ancestors, Which i don't really know how it was invented since the rasool never mentioned such a thing.



    salam sister



    I bet you thought of this idea while working on the dishes or doing house chores, seeing your family members sit there and you work without any attention​
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  9. عــاهد

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    Wow i am surprised that you finally posted something, i was about to complain. :D

    But since we both were on the forum at the same time its my pleasure to reply first.

    The answer is that because this man, kid, or brother has a weak and sick thought. He thinks that by insulting his Ma7ram he is doing the right thing, although he is absolutely doing a big mistake.
    This person might see it as a way to prove that he is a grown up or has some kind of control over his family.
    Another reason is probably because it is a tradition that we all followed from our ancestors, Which i don't really know how it was invented since the rasool never mentioned such a thing.



    salam sister



    I bet you thought of this idea while working on the dishes or doing house chores, seeing your family members sit there and you work without any attention​
    .
     
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  11. عــاهد

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    Wow i am surprised that you finally posted something, i was about to complain. :D

    But since we both were on the forum at the same time its my pleasure to reply first.

    The answer is that because this man, kid, or brother has a weak and sick thought. He thinks that by insulting his Ma7ram he is doing the right thing, although he is absolutely doing a big mistake.
    This person might see it as a way to prove that he is a grown up or has some kind of control over his family.
    Another reason is probably because it is a tradition that we all followed from our ancestors, Which i don't really know how it was invented since the rasool never mentioned such a thing.



    salam sister



    I bet you thought of this idea while working on the dishes or doing house chores, seeing your family members sit there and you work without any attention​
    .
     
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  13. zaidtalool

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    i think men should help women in every thing, and if they think that it is a shame to help them like washing the dishes, i say that some of them wash the dishes, while working in restaurants for example, than why not help your wife and live a happy life and remember like the saying said: " behind every great man, a woman" and thank you, just wanted to say what i think, but on the other hand women must obey their husbands in everything they tell them and they have to be patient. thanks

    ابو طلال
     
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    i think men should help women in every thing, and if they think that it is a shame to help them like washing the dishes, i say that some of them wash the dishes, while working in restaurants for example, than why not help your wife and live a happy life and remember like the saying said: " behind every great man, a woman" and thank you, just wanted to say what i think, but on the other hand women must obey their husbands in everything they tell them and they have to be patient. thanks

    ابو طلال
     
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  17. zaidtalool

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    i think men should help women in every thing, and if they think that it is a shame to help them like washing the dishes, i say that some of them wash the dishes, while working in restaurants for example, than why not help your wife and live a happy life and remember like the saying said: " behind every great man, a woman" and thank you, just wanted to say what i think, but on the other hand women must obey their husbands in everything they tell them and they have to be patient. thanks

    ابو طلال
     
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  19. Rita Alshoaibi

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    great topic SAMIAH

    i can tell u about germany.
    its here now half and half - half of the man do nothing in the house and the other half is helping their wifes.
    a lot, because even woman are working and spending the same time out of the house as their husbands, brothers , etc

    so for me:
    i like that my husband and even brother helps me, when i ask for help - but i dont like really a lot of help, because
    i think sometimes mans have only 2 left hands (i hope u understand what i mean with this) to work in the house (but really thats their way to make woman think they cant do it ................lol)

    so the result for me is:
    they live together , so they have to do half of the work - however that looks


    thanks for this topic


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