To find pleasure in life, you have to adapt to self-oriented persona. Moving away from the pressure of what makes you unhappy or oppressed even if it takes you to escape the influence of the society around you, and instead direct your lives from within yourself, from your own self-perception. According to psychologists this is known as being "inner-directed" rather than "outer-directed." Inner-directed people have greater oppertunity for achievement in life. It is noticed that individuals of such attitudes are more likely to catch the new emerging will of society. Remember that every success you made is achieved through you "only". One major aspect of being successful is that you build trust in yourself. It is very important to know that placing trust on the society will not be a good choice. In short, self-directed individual gains higher composure, potentially this enables him/her for remarkable accomplishment and joy. Perry, J., states, "We must be truly open to others, concerned for others, tolerant and open to their ideas and suggestions; and yet on the other side we must be directed in life by our inner consciousness rather than the blinding social influence around us. It is a balancing act on a razor's edge".