why are youth obssessed by Genus?

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  1. almujahed

    almujahed عضو

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    once I discussed this topic with my dear mother..few months ago..

    i would like to know the yemeni forum members' point of view regarding weddings((((i'd rather call it marriage ceremonies))) in yemen.


    "A well known tabou* facing yemeni youth* is demanding getting married at their early tewenties, they dont dare ask their parents such a right...they may even convince their hungry minds and desires that marriage at this golden age is not necessary,they must first finish studies...work....gain money......................then marry at late 20s or early 30s.

    why should we torture our bodies ...our physiological needs ....our need for the opposite ***....

    i wonder......are we unable to finance ourselves and our wives when we get married at early 20s...i would say...ALLAH who financed us when separated is for sure able to offer us our ( risq) when living together....


    i beleive that many young yemenies are able to finance a house...but cant afford a wedding ceremony...specially in cities..and high ranked rural areas*.

    just because they dont have enough money to celebrate the marriage....the marriage itself is postboned*..or even deleted...

    is that logic.????:confused:

    ...which is better......delete the ceremony and party of the marriage...or delete the marriage itself.....????

    .wallah we (yemenies) are half_minded..

    as a direct consequence....yemeni youth search illegal ways to fullfill their natural needs to ***....this is normal...what are they supposed to do...they must find outlets for the volcano inside.....

    some may say...u must fast and practice sport..That is right ...but just for few weeks or months......and not for the whole 15 or 25 years an adult must wait to get married...


    if we just make formal weddings by signing the marriage contract..doing a (((simple tea and cake))) party....and a simple feast for close relatives...that is all.........offffff we shall save a lot of money and effort which used to be wasted uselessly..."
    almujahed​

    tabou:undiscussed topic
    youth:adults
    postbone:يؤجل
    the topic has other series........​
     
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  3. Rita Alshoaibi

    Rita Alshoaibi مشرف سابق

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    i think thats a really good topic to discuss - but i can tell u only my opinion - because im german and living in germany, so here its much different

    but i hope to see a lot of answers for that

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  5. AL-Mourisi

    AL-Mourisi عضو

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    it is a good tapic to discose i know mony yemenis male and femal the getting marred earlys when the are 15 years and the marred it dont stay for long stel 75% fo the yemens the stal have the old way of thinking and the old way it have some posetive and some negeteve,any way it i think it is a beg mastick to getting u son or u dughter marred when the stel teen age that in this time the dont know what life and what love and the cant go finsh ther edicetion if they in school the bad in some famallyes the but the respansepeltyfor there kidess and the are not ready for it i hop form all the famally the looke for the the mostakabal for the kiddes
     
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  7. almujahed

    almujahed عضو

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    any way.........

    the problem is still persistent. youth are suffering wether boys or girls,,,each gender longs for the other uselessly...

    an immediate solution must be applied...

    just imagine an easy life for both sides...where society helps those new comers to martial life ...wooow...just imagine it
     
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  9. Seeking_Truth

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    woooooooooooooow ..
    One of the most important and intersting topic i've read in this forum..
    But, i will reply to it soon .. 'cause it needs a whole discussion .. so i'll Say thanx for now for such a nice topic and i'll be back writing about this Phenomenon " The early marrige in Yemen especillay in rural areas" ..
    Keep ur hard work u p
    o0o$eeking_trutho0o
     
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  11. almujahed

    almujahed عضو

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    still>>>>>

    members of the forum are beating around the bush>>>
    whatiam talking about is not precoce marriage..iam talking about "us" we youth .... abstaining from love for no reason

    supervisors of the english forum .deleted the word "..." why?
    "..." here does not mean "pornography"...it means gender...type etc. reALLLY ITS FUNNNYY

    I am afraid that iam misunderstood dilerbrately....
     
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  13. Seeking_Truth

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    :D
    Brother ,
    I think that u r in a hurry .. u were supposed to wait for my second reply..
    :p
    Because to talk about marrige and the heavy burdens for youth's marrige means to talk about the whole case with it's consequences .. And at that time u have the right to judge if i'm "beating around the bush" as u said or not , 'cause i'm trying to connect all the reasons and sum it up as an opinion :D ..

    By the way ur topic is so clear but , i will try talk about it from a deep point of view ;) ..

    Wish u all the best ..
    Again i'm signing an admiration to the topic.. :)
     
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  15. محمد المنصري

    محمد المنصري عضو متميّز

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    Salam

    Dear Brother


    It is really hard to say that the way the marriage happens in Yemen is disappointing

    The problem is really hard to be described at once! we need to talk and talk and talk till we get to the base knowledge about the problem and how to resolve it

    Here, I will give my first attempt

    I cannot figure out where you are living? I mean in a city or a village in Yemen or even overseas.. your experience reflects that you are talking about the villages, where it still going the same as you described 95%, and in the cities it is a little bit different

    In villages, there are many reasons to force the youths to get married realier, at least these reasons are good and convincing from the perspective of the parents as well as of the village society

    In cities, it takes a different shape, the majority of the boys rely on their parents and relatives to choose their brides.. I mean it really. Even if those boys have met other girls in the schools, the streets or the universities, they won't get married to those they met

    I said the majority

    So, the difference between the case in the country side and the one in the cities is that SOME boys and girls feels love, taste it, and enjoy it

    It is really complicated, but we still alive and cope with it:) 1

    I would really appreciate if this topic made FIXED

    Salam
     
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  17. محمد المنصري

    محمد المنصري عضو متميّز

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    Well, you have to fight for that
    :D

    I would prefer to change the title of the subject, they did it right

    Salam
     
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  19. yemenreform

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    It is the hormones
    It is also the suggestions of peers and the media

    Many young people around the world are getting married later in their lives. They are also having less kids. It seems that love is getting in the way of their careers and their dreams

    Love is just another need for the human body. We should not obsess about it and make it into a central point where our whole world revolves around it
     

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